When i am dead

Welcome aboard!

Death is one of the constants of life. So, every one
deals with it in different ways. For a poet to express his grief in elegy means he is fully aware of his passage. When someone dies he or she goes with nothing.

So, I am yet to understand the precious favours you said you can't return.

Edit this line 4: "cos I can't return you,
should be: ( 'cause I can't return to you"

I echo what Onyinechi said. he really knows his stuff!

*hugs, Cat

I am in favor of funerals or parties to celebrate the life of the deceased. It helps the bereaved to deal with the loss of a loved one, to know that there were others that loved and honored them as much as yourself. I've told my relatives that when I pass, I want everyone to get together and have a celebration. Everyone that ever knew me is invited, if you can't get along with those that attend, just stick to those you can. I want people to say, "Hey, that was a great time, and I'm glad that I got meet and associate with my friend/relative's people." I understand there is a certain amount of emotion and feeling that "I don't want people to make a fuss, but consider it an honor that you would return if you could. ~ Geezer.
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